You and your partner are living your daily life together, but do you ever feel like you have no real emotional connection? People often call this “roommate syndrome,” which happens when a sexual relationship turns into a friendship.

There are six things you should watch out for if you think your relationship has contracted flatmate sickness.

First, not being close physically can be a big red flag. If you and your partner aren’t touching each other as much, it could mean that the spark has gone out.

Again, living different lives can be a sign of trouble. If you and your partner don’t spend much time together or share hobbies, it can make you feel lonely and distant in the relationship.

Third, not showing love and care can be very bad for a relationship. If your partner isn’t interested in your life or doesn’t try to surprise you, it could mean that they see you more as a roommate than a love partner.

Fourth, not talking about how you feel with each other can be a big sign of flatmate syndrome. It can feel like you and your partner are no longer connected if you stop talking about your thoughts and feelings.

Fifth, not being passionate about something can also be a sign of trouble. If you think your partner isn’t interested in you or the relationship anymore, it could mean that they see you more as a friend than a lover.

Last but not least, bad communication can be a big red flag. It could mean that the relationship has reached its end if you and your partner can’t talk to each other well anymore or if your chats feel forced or surface-level.

What should you do if these signs sound like you? First, be open and honest with your partner about what you want to do. It’s important to talk about your wants and feelings with your partner and to listen to what they have to say. After that, you and your partner can work to bring your partnership back to life. Remember that to combine friendship and romantic love, relationships need work, communication, and a commitment from both people.